Criminal law homework

I should enjoy myself the 10 days semester break, unfortunately Ms Puvan gave the criminal law homework. I have to finish it during the holidays and need to write at least 4 pages !!! It is just a very simple question and how can I expand it become 4 pages or more??? Grrrrrrh......just cite all the cases??? haiz......

亲戚来我家感想

亲戚来我家，是一件很开心的事情。可是最令人不满的是，家里的大家长的态度。老一代的华人，喜欢送礼，送礼不是不好，只是送礼需要高深的学问，要做很多功课。当你想送礼给一个人，你必须知道那个人喜欢什么，不喜欢什么，适合什么，不适合什么。很多人送礼不会考虑到别人，只想到自己，自己喜欢的适合的，别人未必喜欢未必适合。为什么一定要送礼？那位亲戚早就说了只想来吉隆坡玩，来吃，不想拿着大包小包回家。两位大家长就是这样，阳奉阴违，另两方难做，自己却以为自己很大方。其中一位大家长还说吃长素拜观音，满脑那种烂思想，还说诚心向佛，还不是给我用佛理shot到没有话讲？？？短短的三天两夜，我发现到我的观察力还不是普通的强，也因为这样，让我很不屑一些大家族里的成员，他们很假。

亲戚来我家

星期四，来自新加坡的亲戚一家三口来到我家暂住2晚。他们的成员有老叔（公公的弟弟），老婶(他老婆），还有他们的乾女儿（我叫她姑姑），他们的称呼都有点怪，我不知道怎样把潮州话翻成华语>.< 其实我们是没有血缘关系的，因为我公公原本不姓黄，姓李，当年在中国被卖给现在姓黄的曾祖父。。。。。。公公的故事还蛮精彩的，可以写一本小说。我的老叔读的书对我来说太多了>.< 谈天的时候他懂的东西太多了，却没想到他当年是不读书的坏学生！！！当年校长还上门找他呢！！！吉隆坡没什么地方可以逛，shopping center？？比不上新加坡的啦！！唯一可以比的就是美食！！！爸爸带他们去“十号胡同”，吃遍马来西亚著名的美食，吉隆坡一日游，带他们去探望姑姑等等。妈妈也准备了很多好吃的，这几天我胖了T.T

谈天的时候，我们对新加坡的了解更深了。治安好，工作效率高，大学水准高。。。。。。新加坡的执法比较严，规则比较多，没那么多自由，有好有坏。去年去了一次，新加坡和马来西亚差太远了，希望马来西亚有一天会变好。

又来听歌！！！

最近找到好听的歌不多，区区几首，有些是老歌，希望大家好好享受=)突然觉得要找好听的歌要看运气的。。。。。。

prisoner of love
when I need you
I love you more than I can say
when will I see you again
first love
蜀绣
城里的月光
涙そうそう

每首歌都有自己的特色，希望你们慢慢享受！！！

黑色星期四

这篇文章我一定要用华文来写，因为我的英文水平还不足以表达我今天的心情。黑色星期四！！！希望以后再也不要遇到这样的事情。。。

第一件事，common law reasoning class取消，老师的妈妈打电话到college说她的儿子生病，class cancelled。我经历千辛万苦，披荆斩棘才来到college，老师竟然生病！！！common law reasoning 的时间是从10.00am到2.00pm，criminal law的课是从3.00pm开始到4.30pm。。。 最后Ms Puvan很通情达理的把criminal law class取消，不然我们又要等。。。。。。

第二件事，骑脚车回家。回家途中我会走过一条小径，只能让一个人或者一辆脚车通过，小径旁边都是草丛，骑脚车转弯进入这条小径很考技巧，角度和速度都要拿捏得很好，不然。。。。。。我走了这条小径那么多次都没事，今天真的很倒霉。在人行道上，我骑着脚车，有一位很斯文的年轻人走在我前面，到分岔路了，他继续往前走，而我转右进入小径，正当我转入小径时，那位年轻人竟然改变主意走进小径！！！为了避开他，我的脚车向右摆多了一些，没撞上他，而杂草卡到我的脚车，我跌倒了，跌得很伤，脚车的车头也伤痕累累。这位年轻人又改变主意，退后，离开了小径，往另外一条路走去。我扶起脚车，车头向左倾斜了45度，够力，还有脚车的一些零件也坏了，自己又跌得很伤，牛仔裤保护不了膝盖，两个手掌和手肘都擦伤了，柏油路真的很危险。。。。。。当我只能怪自己不小心时，那位年轻人又回来了，一直盯着我看，呆滞的眼神，很无奈，自叹倒霉看到瘟神，勉强骑着脚车离开。骑到了巴刹，找到修理电单车的店，委托他们修理，然后去剪头发+吃午餐。修理费RM48，换了好几个零件，师傅也很惊讶我怎样把脚车弄成这样 >.< 无言。。。。。。回家擦药，这次的伤口比上次的严重，上次的伤痕还没恢复，新的又来了。。。。。。

住在新加坡的亲戚今天会来我家住几天，不能一直上网了。。。。。。

Unforgettable Criminal Law tutorial+lecture

Today Ms Puvan started the criminal law class with tutorial first instead of lecture. She wanted us to separate in groups and discussed about pass year questions. Today's topic is "omission", we had to analyze the question and formed the possible offence that had been made by the client. She guided us with kept on asking some questions about our opinions. When we thought everything was over, she wanted us to think like a defence lawyer!!! She wanted us to raise arguments to fight against what we had stated just now! She wanted to know whether our class had a next Karpal Singh >.< We always think at the prosecutor's side and just know how to apply principles in certain circumstances. No one in the class had given her a satisfactory answer,I think. Then she said her arguments, extremely strong and firm arguments......the way she spoke and the way she thinks are so powerful, can't imagine how the prosecutor feel when Ms Puvan is the defence lawyer, she is great!!!

During lecture, Ms Puvan told us about the facts of R v Ahluwalia 1992. This is a sad story, Ms Puvan was so angry with what had happened with the defendant. The whole class could feel her anger, I think everyone will feel angry with what the husband did to the defendant. What a sad story is. I will never forget R v Ahluwalia 1992.

I will not behave like the husband in this case, ever after.

Terrible KTM !!!

I arrived at Kepong KTM station at 7.40pm.I bumped into the first girl I knew during national service! The train delayed and delayed ......finally I chose the second train at 8.15pm. It was a nightmare in the train, it stopped on the way to KL Central for several times!!!It usually takes about 20 minutes from Kepong to KL Central but I reached KL Central at 9.00pm, and the class had started when I stepped into the classroom. Haiz......

Moral exam!!!

Public law class had been canceled because Ms Diana was sick, so sad.However, we had a lot of time to prepare for moral exam. My classmates and I chit-chatted each other and finally I knew that the world is totally unfair!!! In Taylors College, students can collect most of the marks through group presentation. Besides, lecturer will give them a lot of tips in order to help them to pass the exam. In ATC, students will get the exam papers a few days before the exam. They sure can pass easily in the moral exam!!!How about my college???Yesterday I finally gave up after one hour moral revision. No group presentation, 70% of marks rely on the exam papers......

2.00pm, I started doing my papers......only theories, no own opinion.Tembak, tembak, tembak......50 objective questions and 2 essays.3.40pm, I finished my papers and went out from the classroom. They gave us 3 hours to complete the papers and I did it in 1 hour and 40 minutes.Rushed to KTM station and I luckily caught up with the train. The train stopped at Kuala Lumpur Station for 15 minutes, wondering......A train which carried cement accidentally fall down and damaged the railway=/.Haiz.........

忘记说《clash of the titans》，打架方面还好，故事。。。。。。大boss死得太快了。

College第一个考试

明天就要考Moral Studies了，有点紧张。我真的很讨厌moral studies，因为moral studies充满了许多我不喜欢的theories，而且考试竟然考theories。明天的考试是我在college的第一次正式考试，今晚要读书了。面对moral studies，我只求过关，不求高分，希望这些theories可以顺利进脑。Moral studies和malaysian studies结束后，我就自由了！！！不用再理会这些烦人的科目，专心读law！！！今晚，拼了！！！

早上用pps看了G.I Joe，不错，值得看。

电影！！！

最近用pps看了几部电影，有《叶问》，《The Hurt Locker》，《十月围城》，《金钱帝国》，《提防老千》。此外，也下载了《The Reader》来看。看了这些电影后有很多感想，一一写下来。

先说《叶问》，总觉得不是很好看，但我又说不出哪里有问题，我还是喜欢甄子丹的《杀破狼》和《导火线》。他们也不应该为了突出叶问的厉害而把其他的师傅拍的那么差，其实每一种武术都有自己的强处的。

《The Hurt Locker》，说的是美军拆弹专家在伊拉克的故事。很少激烈枪战，不是商业电影，很好看，最严重的是这部电影打败了《Avatar》夺得奥斯卡最佳影片。

《十月围城》，看完这部电影后我会流眼泪，很好的电影。

《金钱帝国》，说的是几十年前香港警察贪污的故事。我真的被这部电影吓倒了，因为当年香港贪污问题真的很严重，很恶心。我们国家几时才有ICAC呢？？？

《提防老千》，很久以前的电影，也叫做《罪有应得》。这部电影有很多露骨的镜头，这不是重点，这里我知道谁才是真正的高手，原来一切都是局。

《The Reader》，一部文艺片，common law reasoning老师推荐的，说可以通过这部电影了解civil law system，pps的删减太多，只好download，有点失望，这部电影不适合我。

我的右手T.T

回家途中，以很快的速度转弯骑进人行道，人行道平日都没有阻碍物的，可是。。。DBKL竟然放了大大个盆栽在人行道中间！！！我没撞上，可是右手臂进入了那个盆栽的“脑部”，有刺啊！！！有够伤。。。。。。



手背


目前还很痛T.T

A "Pak Cik" and more...

The middle coach is special for ladies, we know it very well. Today something strange happened when I was on my way to KL Central. A "Pak Cik" came into the coach I sat from ladies' coach and complaining non-stop. He thought the coach I sat was on the way to UKM station and the others couldn't. The first thing I thought that time was "Is he a illiterate or fool?" He didn't know just now he stepped into the ladies' coach!!! He acted like "Boy"(someone I hate during national service), and the passengers in the coach looked at him with a very weird way. Till I left the train, I still wondered, how he successfully got into the ladies' coach???

Felt stressed today after criminal law class, there is no justice in this world. You can get "justice" if you get a good lawyer,disappointing.

Nice day!!!!

Moral studies class had been cancelled for today!!! I hate moral studies. This subject is full of theories and definitely bullshit. I finished my moral studies essay yesterday and the essay was tiring. "Discuss the difference between Teleological theory and Deontological theory"...I hate such theory. Why the people busy studying morality? Morality is useless in law,ok? You will not be punished if you are morally wrong. Law never expect us to become a saint. However, I have time to study criminal cases due to cancellation of moral studies.

I finally received my ns smart card.

我的缺点

今天我要讲一讲我的缺点。根据我的分析，我的缺点有：很喜欢zat人，懒惰，不尊敬长辈（这个是别人说的），暴力（看情况），冷血。

第一，喜欢zat人。这个缺点够力咯！！杀伤力超强，完全eco-friendly，能量源源不绝，见神杀神，见鬼杀鬼。我的一号缺点下的受害者多得不得了，老少咸宜。我决定把这个武器收起来，语言伤害是很严重的事情，不要伤害别人后才来道歉。

第二，懒惰。基本上这个缺点不会对别人造成伤害，我懒惰是我的事，我有我的自由。记得高中的时候，妈妈叫我读书（没有考试的时候），我没有这种习惯，结果我对妈妈说：“你不用一直叫我读书的啦！总之考试的时候我考好来就可以了！”我说了这句话后，妈妈吓呆了，因为我很少发火。事实证明，我的考试成绩不差。我总觉得父母太担心我的学业了，考试而已，我考了那么多年的试，都已经麻木了，总之到时我会的啦。应该勤劳的时候，我会勤劳的。

第三，不尊敬长辈。这个缺点看了就生气，请refer上一篇。

第四，暴力。我到现在还没打过架，因为我知道我打不过。读了法律后我更加不敢打架，等一下charge我murder，manslaughter就不好啦，但是如果可以用self-defence来打赢的话，我会考虑，但是要等我做律师后，请律师很贵的。

第五，冷血。你们有没有看过《一公升的眼泪》？在学校看这部电影的时候很多女生都哭了，问他们，他们说很感人。感人？是吗？没感觉。

还有还有！！！我很“串”！！！这个啊。。。不会形容。

我很生气

一直以来我以为我已经可以控制我的脾气，可惜我失败了。7.45am，我对家里那位大家长发脾气。她对我说了一些很难听的话，我沉不住气。我怎样也想不到一位长者，竟然可以说出这些话。我真正生气时，是很可怕的。幸亏我很难生气（看是谁），但是我想对那位长者说：

你死的时候，我会满脸笑容，我的眼泪不会为你而流。可是，我会为你的死写blog，不是哀悼，也许是庆祝。你不是很想死的吗？我不会那么笨去成全你，我不想做杀人凶手。我是不是很不尊敬长辈？我不知道，但是我认为长辈和小辈之间的尊敬是建立在两者互相尊重。你不尊重我，我无法给予你尊敬。我不喜欢虚情假意，我不喜欢满脸笑容的面对着我讨厌的人，我的笑容永远保留给我尊敬，我尊重，还有我爱的人，而你不配。


看起来我有点变态？可怕？随便你们怎么说，我不介意，我只能说：“每个人都有自己的底线。”

Clr and criminal tutorial

I supposed to have clr class from 10.00pm till 2.00pm. However, Mr Kevin arrived at 11.00pm because the management board failed to inform us about the change of timetable. When Mr Kevin gave 15 minutes break, many of the students "cabut"ed to Mid Valley to have their lunch at 笼的传人......and never come back.

I had criminal law tutorial at 3.00pm in the same classroom. Ms Puvan is a great lecturer, the class was great. I feel that criminal law is more difficult than the other subject, we need to think about the cases after we read them whether that is a wrong decision. I have to study hard after September the real intake.

Criminal Law class and more

Today Ms Puvan informed us that the timetable had been changed. So I will have my criminal law class every wednesday and have tutorial on thursday. We studied "intention" during the class and it was complicated and tiring. Today the whole class boycotted the irritating student, he is annoying, never listen to others.

I never thought that she could attract so many guys although she is not very pretty, should I congratulate her???

irritating student

There is one irritating student in my law class. When the first day I met him,I thought he was a clever but humble student.He looks so kind and a little bit shy. Today I realized that he was not as humble as I thought before. It is undeniable that he is a clever and hardworking student. However, he just can be my classmate, only classmate, not friend. Everyday he talks about law, cases when we are chit-chatting about other things. What a boring person he is. During group discussion, he was the leader, but liked to one-man show.when the other teammates were sharing their views, he wouldn't listen to them and kept on insisting that what he said was right. Luckily, I was not under his group, I felt happy in my group, felt free to share our views and we respected each other.

He likes to ask questions during the class. This is good because every lecturer likes students who like to ask something. However, most of his questions are not questions, only rubbish. Moreover, when he was asking questions, he interrupted the lecturer. The lecturer answered his questions patiently but the whole class could feel the lecturer disliked his questions. The questions he asked were strayed away from the subject. Besides that, when the lecturer was answering the other questions asked by the other classmates, he kept on disturbing the class by using"tic-tack" sound come out from his pen. Annoying......

He is same with me as a UOL student. So he will be my classmate during the September intake(real intake). I will not scold him for what he did, the best way to punish him is————snatch the King's College Scholarship away in front of him, I can do it.

不知道自己在写什么

突然觉得自己的口味很复杂。。。为什么没有一个歌手可以当我的偶像？？？haiz。。。。。。以下是我觉得好听的歌。。。。。。

别怕我伤心
太想爱你
如果有一天
忘忧草
下一个永远
童话
你是我的眼

昨天去外婆家替表弟庆祝生日。除了蛋糕外，还有炸鸡，咖喱鸡，炒米粉。。。。。。一般的生日会，没什么特别。

今天原本有灵感写blog的，不知道怎么开头，算了。

怕怕！！！

今天Malaysian Studies，好闷。。。。。。坐KTM回到Kepong后，骑脚车回家。骑着骑着，到达了花园外的大路，红灯了！！！我可以过了！！！一辆Toyota Vios 冲过来了！！！与我的距离只有几cm，我被吓到了！！！跌倒。。。。。。幸亏有牛仔裤保护，只是手掌擦伤。站起来，拍拍下，看了看那位“奉公守法”的司机，印度小姐，她的脸扭曲了，看起来她比我还怕。我的手指指着红绿灯，红灯咧！小姐！！！她应该听不到。绿灯了，她跑了。怕怕！！！如果那辆车往前几cm，我不觉得我还可以在这里写blog，写facebook。想像一下，一辆移动中的脚车，被一辆车撞下去，脚车飞起来，我也飞起来，如果那辆车继续走，拖着我走了一段路。。。。。。如果那辆车停下来，我应该没那么严重，全身伤是正常的，嗯。。。脚车的话，美美的mountain bike变废铁咯！！！为什么他们看到红灯不会停下来呢？？？

New lecturer for Common Law Reasoning

I had my common law reasoning class from 10.00pm till 2.00pm. Mr Kevin will replace Ms Jackie today and I hope the new lecturer will better than Ms Jackie. When Mr Kevin came into the classroom, some of us included me got shocked!!! He was so young and a little bit cute. I thought he was a new classmate >.< ......After he introduced himself ,he explained the difference between papers of UOL and UKT. Then he started the lecture, quite good if compared with Ms Jackie. He changed the tutorial class to lecture class because the whole class didn't have enough knowledge for Common Law Reasoning.

*I just realized that common law is applied in America, not civil law!!!

Criminal Law class and KTM

I had my criminal law class from 2.00pm till 6.00pm. The class was great and I enjoyed the class very much.However, the whole class failed the "But For" Test , the concept was quite confusing.

I waited for KTM at 6.15pm. There was a lot of passengers waiting at the station.The train delayed again,haiz......When I stood at the train and suffered from difficulty of breathing, an auntie behind me asked me whether I could put my school bag on the floor because she felt uncomfortable(ah...lei ho yi jiong lei de shu bao fang hai dei ha ma?hou zak ah).I really felt angry at that time, wat the fish!!!Why she just thought about herself??I couldn't move my hand,body,legs at all!!!She still could turn her body easily. So I answered her coolly,"do you think it is possible for me to move my body?"(lei tai wo ge sao yok dou meh?)Then she just kept her mouth shut.

Do you know why I always carry my bag on my back?It is because I want to avoid any sexual harassment!!! If I don't carry my bag on my back, it is large percentage that I will touch anyone's body with my butt during peak hour, then the ladies will feel uncomfortable. I would like to ask that selfish auntie,"you only have two choices, do you want my ass "keep in touch" with you or you want my bag "keep in touch" with you???"I know what I say is quite impolite but this is the truth.

Bad KTM but Wonderful Contract Law Class!!!

I reached Kepong KTM Station at7.30am because the timetable had been changed due to tutorial.Yesterday is better, there was a lot of passengers waiting at the station today.I watched 2 trains went away and I got into the 3rd train. The condition didn't seem better, they still pushed each other although the train was already full.Why don't the authorities increase more coaches?? Money shouldn't be the problem for KTM. In my opinion, KTM board has the responsibility for the sexual harassment faced by the female passengers. Passengers will feel comfortable if KTM board increases the number of coach.

I had my Contract Law Class from 9.00pm but the lecturer arrived at 9.30pm. Ms Meera replaced Mr Kumar for today because Mr Kumar was busy.Ms Meera is the principal lecturer of the college.This is the first time I saw a lecturer came into the class just with her little and cute handbag!!! All concepts and cases were stored in her brain, the lecture was great!!!!!After that we started the tutorial. Ms Meera separated us into groups and gave us UOL pass year papers. Wat The Fish!!! Wat kind of exam paper is this???Complicated and tricky questions......Ms Meera comforted the UKT students that UKT's papers are much easier than UOL's >.< OMG!!!The questions were complicated and there was arguments all over the class. I enjoyed the tutorial very much ,we discussed the questions together,we argued with the other group in certain points, group presentation......Wonderful class.

Today...

Today we start tutorial,felt good at Public Law class.We finally finished the rule of law,learned a lot.There was little Moral test given by Puan Adura,it was a open-book test.I was busy copying the textbook, feel tired now.Rushed to KTM station after passed up my papers, I still saw some noobs queuing at the special coach's side.There was signboards written in 4 kinds of languages over there informing the public that this place is reserved for ladies, they didn't aware of that.What the fish......Luckily two female KTM workers came and reminded them.

*feel tired, still need to prepare 3 contract law cases for tomorrow, study study study.

Doggers Gathering

今天是Doggers United聚会的日子。Doggers的成员有哲讯，宇明，良田，得豪,我，文佩，汉雄。可惜今天得豪做工，不得空，反而加了几个成员，那就是淑婷，家祥，运来。大约早上十点，我们到达了Mid Valley，先去买票。排了好久，终于买到票了Iron Man 2，第一排。先去Dome吃午餐，顺便吹水，谈到了大家升学的事情。1.40pm，看Iron Man 2，打架场面少，幽默成分多，不错，可是Boss死得太快了，没瘾。然后去The Warung吃晚餐，搭KTM回家。



大排长龙......>.<
无聊，在MPH逛逛


师奶杀手——田哥


Js哥，难得拍到他，珍贵照片。


本来是guys' gathering的，幸亏多了MP姐和Stephanie


本来肚子痛的雄哥看起来好多了


Chng Ming哥吃生熟蛋


Stephanie检查Chng Ming哥有没有挖干净


Fur Fur：开动咯！


Shon～～～


未来主播在摆pose。。。

这里说一说Doggers United的历史。Doggers United由李哲讯，黄俊玮，徐得豪，庄宇明，李良田，曾汉雄在高二正式组成。这六位男生是班上的边缘人物，总是在班上搞自闭，生性懒散，说话废气很多。组里每个人都的是大哥，有自己的称号和花名：
哲讯——Jek Son gor——吹枪佬（吹枪，招牌动作）
俊玮——Wai gor——伟哥（名字影响）
得豪——Hou gor——Kobe（篮球高手）
宇明——Chng Ming gor——清明哥（看名字）
良田——Tin gor——小甜甜/师奶杀手（小甜甜/田田，Britney Spears，师奶杀手，很多auntie喜 欢他，lala妹也很喜欢他）
汉雄——Hong gor——sip车王子（驾车技术高超）

这么废的组织，没想到成员们的成绩那么厉害，尤其是哲讯，宇明和良田。

哲讯，SPM全A包括1119，统考10A1B，国文和英文十大，准备去NTU读accounting，下chess高手，我完全打不过他。

宇明，数学高手，实力比我还高，可惜缺了点运气。读HELP accounting。

良田，非常平均，SPM全A包括1119，统考10A1B，报读NTU accounting，却给他读economics。打算读HELP。

高二的时候，班上对我们的评价都不是很好，认为我们搞小团队，不合群。可是doggers和他们的性格差太远了，他们太活泼了，我们接受不来。可是，doggers在gathering里是很放的，音乐课唱歌考试时不敢唱？唱k时尽管唱，而且很好听，真心话。在班上我们都是沉默的一群，不合群的性格造就了Doggers United，我们去唱k，tok ball，bowling，看电影，泡cc（cyber cafe，只有一次，我只逗留了一小时，不喜欢那里的环境），成为了我中学时期最美好的回忆。八月bro js要去新加坡了，希望Doggers可以再办多一次gathering。

***iron man 2很搞笑，去看！！！Hammer Tech 的best weopon——"ex-wife"，哈哈哈哈哈，这里一定要用我学到的internet language，LMAO！！！！不能讲，快点去看！！！

无题

想不到题目的名字，就放“无题”吧！

今天看书的时候读到了一个简短，但富有意义的句子：

没有人值得你为他/她流泪，唯一值得你为他/她流泪的人却永远也不会让你流泪

的确经典，不知道这句话是谁说的。
在网上我也读到了哲学家苏格拉底和失恋者的对话：

苏(苏格拉底)：孩子，为什么悲伤？

失（失恋者）：我失恋了。

苏：哦 ，这很正常。如果失恋了没有悲伤，恋爱大概也就没有什么味道。可是，年轻人，我怎么发现你对失恋 的投入甚至比对恋爱的投入还要倾心呢。

失：到手的葡萄给丢了，这份遗憾，这份失落，您非个中人，怎知其中的酸楚。

苏：丢就丢了，何不继续向前走去，鲜美的葡萄还有很多。

失：我要等到海枯石烂，直到她回心转意向我走来。

苏：但这一天也许永远不会到来。

失：那我就用自杀来表示我的诚心。

苏：如果这样，你不但失去了你的恋人，同时还失去了你自己，你会蒙受双倍的损失。

失：踩上她一脚如何？我得不到的别人也别想得到。

苏：可这只能使你离她更远，而你本来是想与她更接近的。

失：您说我该怎么办？

苏：真的很爱？那你当然希望你所爱的人幸福？

失：那是当然。

苏：如果她认为离开你是一种幸福呢？

失：不会的！她曾经跟我说过，只有跟我在一起的时候她才感到幸福！

苏：那是曾经，是过去，可她现在并不这么认为。

失：这就是说她一直在骗我？

苏：不，她一直对你很忠诚。当她爱你的时候，她和你在一起，现在她不爱你，她就离去了，世界上再没有比着更大的忠诚。如果她不再爱你，却还装得对你 很有情意，甚至跟你结婚、生子，那才是真正的欺骗呢。

失：可我为她所投入的感情不是白白浪费了吗？谁来补偿我？

苏：不，你的感情从来没有浪费。因为在你付出感情的同时，她也对你付出了感情，在你给她快乐的时候，她也给了你快乐。

失：可是，她现在不爱我了，我却还苦苦的爱着她，这多不公平啊！

苏：的确不公平，我是说你对所爱的那个人不公平。本来，爱她是你的权利，但爱不爱你则是她的权力，而你却想在自己行使权力的时候剥夺别人行使权力的 自由。这是何等的不公平！

失：可是您看得明白，现在痛苦的是我而不是她，是我在为她痛苦！

苏：为她而痛苦？她的日子可能过得很好，不如说是你为自己而痛苦吧。明明是为自己，却还打着为别人的旗号。

失：依您的说法，这一切倒成了我的错？

苏：是的，从一开始你就犯了错。如果你能给她带来幸福，她是不会从你的生活中离开的，要知道，没有人会逃避幸福。

失：可她连机会都不给我，你说可恶不可恶？

苏：当然可恶。好在你现在已经摆脱了这个可恶的人，你应该感到高兴，孩子。

失：高兴？怎么可能呢，不管怎么说，我是被人给抛弃了。

苏：被抛弃的并不是就是不好的。

失：此话怎讲？

苏：有一次，我在商店看中一套高贵的西服，爱不释手，营业员问我要不要。你猜我怎么说，我说质地太差了，不要！其实，我口袋了没有钱。年轻人，也许 你就是被遗弃的西服。

失：您真会安慰人，可惜您还是不能把我从失恋的痛苦中引出。

苏：时间会抚平你心灵的创伤。 失：但愿我也有这一天，可我的第一步该从哪里做起呢？

苏：去感谢那个抛弃你的人，为她祝福。

失：为什么？

苏：因为她给了你忠诚，给了你寻找幸福的新的机会。

应该说些什么呢？？？他所说的话令我有时觉得苏格拉底不是人，他是真理的化身。我也想起了一个名句，是很多年前看书读到的：

他/她失去的是一个爱他/她的人，而你失去了一个不爱你的人

*上面这一句是特别写给她的，不要为了那种人而哭好吗？尽管你说你已经放下了，但我还是听得出你的不舍。我的个人感觉向来都很准，但希望我这次是错的。